I got it old man

So my best friend was in town for the last 3 weeks and I didn't work on the blog or getting any ass, which was a bummer.  Before she arrived, she told me that she wanted to meet Terry.  I told Terry and he said OK, we can go out for a drink.  So we pick a time to go to a movie at The Parkway in El Cerrito.  So a few minutes before the movie I'm outside looking for Terry.  He'd gone to the one in Oakland and wasn't going to make the movie.  I suggest that he join us for a drink after the movie.  Unfortunately he never shows up for our drink.  The next day he sends me a text saying he feel asleep when he got home.  I accept this answer- he's old, likes smoking weed and taking naps- that's the perfect combination for sleeping past things.

We make some new plans to get together another night at a bar.  To prevent confusion, I send Terry an email with the address of the bar and the meet time.  So we get dressed and go to the bar.  So there we are looking good, waiting at the bar, Terry never shows up.  We were late getting there, so I ask the bartender if an old man was there before we got there.  Naturally he said no.  We walk down the street to the other bar that was listed in the email, no dice.  He's not there either.

Kind of drunk and super pissed, we go home.  I talk to Terry the next day.  He apologizes for not joining us.  I tell him I'm pissed without acting too crazy- I mean, our status is still unknown.  He tells me he slept thru our meet time and didn't think we were waiting on him. What the fuck?!  He apologizes again and says he'll make it happen.  Of course he doesn't make it to our new meet date.  

I was disappointed that he couldn't make this simple request happen.  But I was totally pissed that he couldn't just man up and say he didn't want to meet her.  I could have accepted that a lot better than being stood up twice and having to deal with the embarrassment that goes along with that.  Luckily my best friend was just as pissed and disappointed as I was but understanding.  And if you think I'm overreacting, when I sent Terry an email about getting together for a romp in the hay- he was available the same day.  What a dick!  But I love getting dick, so I'll be there.  When I see him, I'll be sure to tell him that he could have manned up and said he didn't want to meet her.  But I if he's wondering, I got it.  We're just a booty call that sometimes goes outside.

Is he my boyfriend?

Shortly after I started this blog, I started seeing a Booty Call by the name of Terry.  As I've mentioned on other posts, we spend a lot of time together and about 2 months ago we started going outside to do things.  We go to the movies, we go to bars, we go out to eat, we make out in public.  But now I'm wondering, is he my boyfriend?

I haven't been seeing other guys, although my phone has been ringing from other guys.  But Terry is always inviting me over, sending me naughty texts and emails and basically taking up a lot of my time.  Now I have allowed Terry to take up a lot of my time and he's always available for me no matter what.  But is he my boyfriend?

At what point will I know?  I don't want to be childish and ask "are you my boyfriend?" or "what's going on between us?"  Maybe part of my hesitation has to do with my fear of hearing something other than, "we're dating".  But his roommates refer to me as his girlfriend and my friends feel like he's my boyfriend since I haven't hooked up with anyone in over a month.  Then there's the fact that I don't want to have to tell Terry that I've been sleeping with other guys up until about a month ago.  No one ever takes that information very well.

I won't be seeing Terry for two weeks since my best friend is in town from London.  But Terry is going to meet her this week and he'll probably be meeting my other friends who'll mysteriously be at the same place as us.  Since I've mostly had booty calls recently, I'm not sure what the rules are.  I guess I'll just have to wait and see what happens.  Or at least until my best friend tells me that he's too old.